Thursday, November 30, 2006

My innocent Japanese wife... NOT!!


A lot of fed-up American men believe that outsourcing to Asia will solve all their feminista woman woes. As if Asian women are a whole 'nother species that live in an un-Americanized cultural vacuum. Well, this topic has already been covered here, but here's another installment on the danger of fantasy-based stereotyping, underestimating any women and lulling yourself into a false sense of security (and NO, this is not MY story, btw):
It turns out that for the entire year of 2002 my wife had an affair with this guy. She loved him and they had a sexual and emotional affair.

I never once doubted my wife and even braged to other Navy buddies that I did not have to worry about my wife cheating on me because she is such a lady.
I could write a book about this topic; and for those who don't know about Japanese women it may not seem logical what I am saying, but to sum up Japanese women in a word, I would choose this one: SELFISH
Well, I think that one word would apply to most ALL women these days...and certainly not exclude Asian women! The sad fact is that feminism has gone viral and has reached every corner of the globe (although some more than others). There is simply no true refuge anymore...
I worry that a woman from any of these places would, upon moving to the U.S., eventually become like the Western members of her gender. This may not happen often, but I know two men whose Asian wives eventually became every bit as bad as any home-grown choice they might have made.
This is because all your average women are parasitic opportunists - and will do as much as they think they can get away with. The main difference between Asian and AW is simply that AW currently have a few more options living in this feminist welfare state and possess more popular crossover sex-appeal (and thus leverage with men). But an Asian woman with all those same opportunities would exploit them just as well.

The more we unleash women, the more they will bite the hand that feeds them...

28 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sheesh... Women are as "parasitic" as men are superficial pigs. Its a matter of biology. Women are hard wired to look for providers because we birth children and are rendered dependent through child rearing and gestation. Men are superficial because they are hard wired to find a mate for optimum breeding.

I see so many men acting the superficial pig role (which is natural) but have the audacity to complain about the female equivalent.

Personally I believe, the whole western hemisphere is culturally fucked. We have too much appreciation for hedonism, materialism and superficiality. Not enough love for intellectualism or family values.

Saturday, October 06, 2007 2:48:00 AM  
Anonymous nutfinder said...

Japanese life expectancies for men and women: A "patriarchal" society?
Denise Noe

113-year-old Kaku Yamanaka, the oldest person in Japan recently died. For those unfamiliar with Japanese names, Kaku was a woman. Japan boasts of long average life spans with the average age at death being 85.81 years old for women and 79 years old for men.

That Japanese women tend to outlive their men for a full six years is a point to give one pause. Japan is frequently thought of as one of the world’s most deeply “patriarchal” societies. It is a society in which, until fairly recently, women were expected to walk behind their husbands. They were expected to wash their husbands’ feet and scrupulously obey them. (To what extent this is still the case I do not know.)

Yet Japanese women live a good many years after men. Why?

It seems to me that this points to several things. One is that, as is of necessity true everywhere in the world, those jobs in Japan that require the most physical strength and are the most physically dangerous, are usually filled by men.

It also indicates that male dominance is often a cover for greater male responsibility. Men in Japan bear the burden of financial support and this burden may lead them into a life that is seriously unbalanced and leaves them little time for the joys of the families that they are supporting. Phyllis Schlafly once observed that most husbands are easier to please than most bosses
. The relative life expectancies of men and women in Japan appears to shore up that point.


Americans still have yet to see the connection between power and responsibility. All they see is power. Therefore, it is easy for them to believe that Old World cultures are "patriarchal" because the men have more visible "power."

What they DON'T see though is that that power is more than matched by RESPONSIBILITY. And in the end, is more burdensome to the men than the women.

Hence, men must use up their lifeforce faster and die 6 years earlier!

Monday, April 07, 2008 12:40:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friend is an American guy and found out that his Japanese wife - Junko Muto of Tokyo - is already married to another guy - She never got divorced from her first husband!

He is a succesful businessman living a very good life in Tokyo on assignment with a US company. He may have been somewhat naive about some of the Japanese women that he met in Tokyo. However, he was dating his future wife for over a year and he believed he knew her well. They eventually got married and it was too late when he found out the truth

Turns out she was married to a guy in the US and that didnt work out and she eventually came back to Japan. The thing is she was still legally married and the first marriage was still recognized in Japan. She parted with the first husband and set out to land a rich foriegn guy that could give her an expat wife lifestyle. She found my American friend.

She broke down and confessed to all of this after he discovered in a box of love letters from other guys that she had herpes from a previous boyfriend. Not only was she a bigamist, but gave my friend herpes as well.

I have heard other terrible stories about Japanese women, but this is one of the worst I have ever come accross. I was considering marrying a Japanese woman, but hearing this makes me think twice.

What do you think?

Friday, October 10, 2008 8:23:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friend is an American guy and found out that his Japanese wife - Junko Muto of Tokyo - is already married to another guy - She never got divorced from her first husband!

He is a succesful businessman living a very good life in Tokyo on assignment with a US company. He may have been somewhat naive about some of the Japanese women that he met in Tokyo. However, he was dating his future wife for over a year and he believed he knew her well. They eventually got married and it was too late when he found out the truth

Turns out she was married to a guy in the US and that didnt work out and she eventually came back to Japan. The thing is she was still legally married and the first marriage was still recognized in Japan. She parted with the first husband and set out to land a rich foriegn guy that could give her an expat wife lifestyle. She found my American friend.

She broke down and confessed to all of this after he discovered in a box of love letters from other guys that she had herpes from a previous boyfriend. Not only was she a bigamist, but gave my friend herpes as well.

I have heard other terrible stories about Japanese women, but this is one of the worst I have ever come accross. I was considering marrying a Japanese woman, but hearing this makes me think twice.

What do you think?

Friday, October 10, 2008 8:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you're being naïve in your assumption that your experience is a result of a woman's nationality, heritage, or even gender. this type of behavior can be attributed to a woman's membership in the human species alone, as you can find the same thing happening among men and women of many countries.

it also seems that you are basing your opinion of an entire segment of society on a very small number of incidents. if you know one faithless japanese woman, surmising that there are others like her is understandable. to say that all, most, or even a sizable chunk of japanese women are the same say is an unsupportable stretch.

Saturday, January 17, 2009 12:28:00 PM  
Blogger Tatemae nihon jin said...

OK everyone!!!!!Fisrt of all you should learn something about Japanese(I lived in Japan two years,my ex-wife was Japanese. No means yes and yes means no,always remember that!

I'm writing this because i don t want other men to live the hell I had to go threw in Japan!!!!

Anyway, we met in Canada, she was travelling like so many Japanese do!!! So we went out together everithing was fine!!!!After that she got pregnant,we decided to keep the baby and since we were back in my home town at that time we decided that she was going to deliver in Canada,that was fine with both of us!!!!

About two weeks after that, her family came to meet me and my family!Everything was fine her parents were so nice!They said 'he looks like a good men ,he has good family,Canada is a great country, you stay in Canada and you guys have a family!!!!They said that in front of me and my parents!!!

Wow everything is perfect I thought!So three days later she tells me ,'I want to deliver in Japan,be near my family then we will come back to live in Canada!!!

I did not agree,I thought we should stay in Canada and get prepared and just could not understand that three days before we had decided both families that it was better to stay in Canada!!!!

I wanted her to be relax ,so i did agree!!!!Her plan was to go to Japan right away by herself ,i would stay in Canada and she would come back 6 months after the baby was born!!!!

I did agree but not the part where i would not see my son be born,see him only six months after!!!So we decided that i was going to Japan for the delivery ,we would stay there couple month for her to get better and come back to Canada!!!!

So six months later ,I was in Japan with my wife and her family ,I got a job teaching and passing flyers !!!

That was the biginning of the end!!!!First when I got to Japan ,her attitude towards me had changed!She did not seem to be so happy to see me!!She was distant!!!!I thought ,OK she is pregnant it's not easy ,things will get better!!!

Anyway, she delivered and we got married at the court hall!!!

At that point our relationship was not so great,she expected me to behave like a Japanese men!!!I don t know how to explain that but this is a Japanese tipycal family,The men works, the wife is a house wife,and the relationship is cold!!!!I don t want to generalize but this is how it is in Japan!!Hard to explain!!!!!

At that point i did not know what to expect anymore she pushed away our return to Canada,i had to work in Japan and i had a lot of stress!!!

One day we had a big argument about all that,i could not keep going like this, she was very selfish,she did not care what i felt,we had to go back to Canada!

I can t remember all the details of this argument but it ended up like this,she tells me "i'm in my country i have money i keep baby, you go back to Canada!!!!!

Let me tell you something,you don't want to be there!!!! I snaped that day, i never was violent with women but when she told me that i was so hangry and I pushed her away,ok that was bad from me!!!! there is no excuse (i pushed her,not beat the c.... out of her or punch her in the face)

That was it , it was divorce , I was a bad men....

You don't want to divorce in Japan with kids it is very bad!there is no joint custidy in Japan.I refused the divorce for a year because of the conditions:no custidy, i could not be by myself with my kid,visits right of three days a month and the family court judge who tells me "No problem you can talk to your son from internet from Canada.

I did sign the divorce and accepted those conditions:no custidy,visit rights 3 days a month,300$ i would pay to my wife every month plus help her out to pay for school ,clothes etc....
I had no other choice....
I asked her to help me out and sign for my visa so that i could stay in Japan and take care of my son!She refused ,so i could not stay in Japan!!!I did manage to get a visa by myself but let me tell you it was hard and stressful.I paid 300$ each month, i saw my son about three times a month. One day she comes to my place and announce me that she wants to move to europe with my son!!!Hey i'm from canada ,i live in japan for my son and now what,i'm going to have to move in Europe!!!!She did not want me to know him and her family too!!It is custom in Japan when they get divorce and have kids usually the father is pushed away.Before we were divorce i gave my son a name,secretly she gave her last name to my son(that in Japan takes away all my rights to my son)if she would die my son goes to her parents.She never gave him the first name we decided 'Alex',she gave him a Japanese first name!(BE carefull if you Japanese wife is pregnant she will tell you to put the japanese name because it is easyer for paper work in Japan,All the guys i met who had a Japanese wife had the same story,in fact it will take away all your rights when in Japan(only in Japan,because no other countrys have laws that protects child abduction)
When her parents came to Canada to meet my family ,they came to tell her to go back to Japan,but to my family they said'it's better if they stay in Canada!This is call TATEMAE in Japanese,telling you one thing but doing the opposite!
If you don't believe me or you think my case is unique go see this website www.crnjapan.com or type child abduction in japan on you tube!!!!

She now lives and got married in Norway!I don't see my son anymore!

I was not right to push her that day,but every men has it's own limits!I was trapped ,that is what happened but it was too late when i realized!!! Innocent Japanese wife,I don't think so!!!!

I made friends in Japan,most foreigners who have Japanese girlfriend run into problems.You see so many young couples japanese and foreigners but never saw one old couples! I sympathised for one of my good friend over there who lives in Japan for 15 years for his daughter, she is now 15 years old but he still can't see her by himself,guess what we had about the same situation in Japan!!!!

To the one who say that western culture is f.....!I would recommend you to stop watching Geisha movies and the last samurai!I think you should go work and live in Japan for a Japanese company (as I did)and realized how they are!They are always so nice when they come travel in your country but it is manners only!Once you live there you ll realize!I always had that image of Japanese beeing so innocent,so polite, but living there i learned that they are so cold ,they have no mercy, they are emotion less people!I trusted them at the time but guess what if anyone would tell me they are in love with a Japanese girl I say 'be very very careful!!! In every country there are selfish people,Japanese girls are extremely selfish and spoiled ,I explain you why!First you know how we usually should not generalize, in Japan it is different ,you can generalize because it is a totalitarian kind of society ,everyone acts the same!You can talk to 50 girls but they all have the same kind of goals,they talk the same way!They are spoiled usually!Most japanese family are more then average regarding money,so for exemple this girl I knew is 20 years old,she wants to go study english in australia,she ask her parents 20 000 dollars for a year,they give it to her right away, they buy 600$ pierce and bags and watch.They think all girls in other country have those lui vuitton bag!!!!When they have a boyfriend they usually have a PAPA like they call that!!A Papa is an old men who likes them and pay expensive things for them,so they have a boyfriend they love and an old men who pays expensive things!So they pretty much always get what they want.Guess what when they are with a foreigner they think it s going to be the same!

In conclusion what do you expect from a country where the ex prime minister Koizumi when he got divorce,denyed custidy to his wife, and to this day she can t see her own children(you can verify it is true)


So if you want to be happy please get a girl from your country your going to save yourself many problems!!!!(sorry for my english I'm french )

Sunday, February 01, 2009 6:46:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have been married to a Japanese woman for nine years.
She's been trying these tricks with me for years too.
I don't put up with her bullshit even when she's told me to find someone else! I stay in thus f***ed up country for the sake of my son. No way I'm leaving him!
Japanese girls think they are Japanese princesses, the truth is, they are f***ing clueless when it comes to the outside world.
My wife is cold, uncaring - especially when I'm sick and not able to make money, secretive and controlling.
My solution? Tell her to STFU and treat her like the b**ch she is! It's BS that it's the 'norm' - it's a bag of childish crap is what it is, and just like any naughty child, sometimes a smack on backside does a world of good!!

Monday, July 20, 2009 8:02:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Byrdeye,

I am writing to ask you to delete the defamation comment below written on your post.

The comment is absolute defamation and internet harrassment. This guy had beaten up me severely and abused me in every way, so I finally decided to leave him. To get a revenge on me, he left similar defamatory comments on all sorts of websites.

If you believe in the "doing the right thing", having the integrity, and think "defamatory internet name-calling" is wrong, please do delete the comment (he left the same comment twice on the post), or at least delete individual's name.

I would very much appreciate your help on this and also please don't publish this comment. I just wanted to reach you to ask the defamatory comment.

Thank you very much for time and your help.

Please delete the comment below:
http://byrdeye.blogspot.com/2006_11_01_archive.html

Comment:
Anonymous said...
My friend is an American guy and found out that his Japanese wife - Junko Muto of Tokyo - is already married to another guy - She never got divorced from her first husband!

He is a succesful businessman living a very good life in Tokyo on assignment with a US company. He may have been somewhat naive about some of the Japanese women that he met in Tokyo. However, he was dating his future wife for over a year and he believed he knew her well. They eventually got married and it was too late when he found out the truth

Turns out she was married to a guy in the US and that didnt work out and she eventually came back to Japan. The thing is she was still legally married and the first marriage was still recognized in Japan. She parted with the first husband and set out to land a rich foriegn guy that could give her an expat wife lifestyle. She found my American friend.

She broke down and confessed to all of this after he discovered in a box of love letters from other guys that she had herpes from a previous boyfriend. Not only was she a bigamist, but gave my friend herpes as well.

I have heard other terrible stories about Japanese women, but this is one of the worst I have ever come accross. I was considering marrying a Japanese woman, but hearing this makes me think twice.

What do you think?

Friday, October 10, 2008 8:23:00 PM


Anonymous said...
My friend is an American guy and found out that his Japanese wife - Junko Muto of Tokyo - is already married to another guy - She never got divorced from her first husband!

He is a succesful businessman living a very good life in Tokyo on assignment with a US company. He may have been somewhat naive about some of the Japanese women that he met in Tokyo. However, he was dating his future wife for over a year and he believed he knew her well. They eventually got married and it was too late when he found out the truth

Turns out she was married to a guy in the US and that didnt work out and she eventually came back to Japan. The thing is she was still legally married and the first marriage was still recognized in Japan. She parted with the first husband and set out to land a rich foriegn guy that could give her an expat wife lifestyle. She found my American friend.

She broke down and confessed to all of this after he discovered in a box of love letters from other guys that she had herpes from a previous boyfriend. Not only was she a bigamist, but gave my friend herpes as well.

I have heard other terrible stories about Japanese women, but this is one of the worst I have ever come accross. I was considering marrying a Japanese woman, but hearing this makes me think twice.

What do you think?

Friday, October 10, 2008 8:24:00 PM

Friday, December 25, 2009 8:49:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I feel sorry for you guys. My wife, for the most part, is great. Sometimes she is too negative for my tastes but for the most part, a great partner. She doesnt control the finances, our child has my last name and an american social security number and passport. My wife has a college degree in english. Maybe you guys just found your wife in the wrong place: A bar!

Friday, January 01, 2010 11:08:00 PM  
Anonymous Byrdeye said...

^^ Uh, I don't think I can delete comments after I've already approved them.

Oh crap, I just noticed that you said not to publish your comment. Sorry! :(

Well, I'll just let the record show that you take issue with his statements.

But if it's any consolation, this post is over 3 years old, very few people are ever going to read it at this point and I think most people take anonymous blog comments with a grain of salt, anyways...

As far as any of us know, it could all be fictional - including you.

Saturday, January 02, 2010 4:21:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello i am married to a Japanese woman i am Englishman , we are not getting on she is staying in the uk with me her ways are not nice to me, she is taking now anti depressants. When we go to talk she is shaking and talks like a little girl she is near 40 yrs old. I am at my end with her now only been married for 12 months . know her for 5 yrs in total we have had our ups and downs her in the uk and Japan, but this is different, she as made enemy of my mother now so make it a lot worst , what i want to know is if i divorcé her what do i need to do , she is talking about me behind my back at English school , they are asking what do i do for her and what money i give , well hold on there i pay bills foods and all that i am working non stop , while she stops in , i have taken her out meals , trips out in car, got her a coat and watch, even got her a £500 laptop , she has money in Japan worth £30 to £40 thousand does that mean i can use all my money but not her? am i seen as the bad guy ? here.
So what i want know is who is right and wrong i know you need more info but i can , want advice for this as she seems not normal girl under all this .Japanese girls don't make me laugh .
Anyways for me she can go back Japan i know life not easy in Uk as such. For me i had my fill of trying to bend over backwards thatfor me is spoilt little girl under all this cover or front she puts on, she as really upset my family now that i cant repair anymore
what's the best with this as she can be suicidal with what i have seen she cant talk to me without thinking all blame is on her we are both to blame with things i understand that.If you want more info on this let me know

Thursday, January 14, 2010 2:58:00 PM  
Anonymous realman said...

Look you underendowed sissyboys, forget about these underdeveloped Asian cunts and get you some real women. Who are much better in bed too.

Discover the key to the Big O
ANI, 8 May 2009, 12:00am IST

Italian scientists, who proved that the semi-mythical G-spot does exist, are investigating whether hirsute women are more likely to have the erogenous zone.

According to the researchers, since hirsute women have higher levels of testosterone, both the clitoris and the G spot are thought to respond to the hormone.

Earlier this year, Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L''Aquila in Italy along with colleagues captured the G-spot on ultrasound for the first time.

According to New Scientist , the researchers discovered clear anatomical differences between women who claim to have vaginal orgasms - as opposed to clitoral - and those that don't.

Women capable of orgasm during penetrative sex have a thicker tissue area in the region between the vagina and the urethra – meaning it's now easy to medically tell the difference between the lucky "cans" and the "can-nots".

Interestingly, the boffins also believe that women with the thicker tissue can be 'taught' to have vaginal orgasms, if they can't already. Ultrasound scans on 30 women uncovered G spots in just eight of them and when these women were asked if they had vaginal orgasms during sex, only five of them said yes. However, when the remaining three were shown their G spots on the scan and given advice on how to stimulate it, two of them subsequently "discovered" the joy of vaginal orgasms.

"This demonstrated, although in a small sample, the use of [vaginal ultrasound] in teaching the vaginal orgasm," Jannini says. Sadly, none of the have-nots had vaginal orgasms either before or after the scans, so they'll just have to make do with the old-fashioned clitoral kind.

The results were presented at the Italian Society of Andrology and Sexual Medicine in Rome.

Sunday, January 17, 2010 1:14:00 PM  
Anonymous realman said...

LOOK, you wussbags need to experience a real woman like this who can cum your dick off! Then you won't need to scour 3rd world countries to find some native to pump up your deflated sexual egos. And then whining online about getting screwed over because YOU were so pathetic you couldn't get a real woman within a 1000-mile radius to let you stick your joystick in her!

Yes, I realize that it takes a REAL man to get a REAL woman. So, this WILL require you spineless chumps to actually grow a pair. But until you DO, you can count on getting screwed over by every type of woman under the son, boys!

Sunday, January 17, 2010 4:43:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My wife is Japanese and we live in Tokyo. We have a young son. About two years ago she went cold, so I've had enough. She wants a divorce? She's got it. She wants custody? She's got it. She wants money? Forget it! I'm moving into a new place and am going to enjoy being single here. No more cold bitch! I want a hot one!

Saturday, March 13, 2010 4:28:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, you people are really misinformed and sadly mistaken, I am living in Japan, have been so since 1996. Books only tell a small portion of the story, after 14 years in Japan, I have found that most women(not your clubbing blond hair ezbake oven makeup and mini skirt wearing) are pretty good. If you go after something that looks slutty in Japan, you get what you asked for. Looks tell a true story here!!

Tuesday, August 24, 2010 7:28:00 AM  
Anonymous crazyhoz said...

Xian Peng, 48, had returned from China for a visit and was at the home of his former de facto Jian Chen in North Ryde on Tuesday night.

Police allege Chen served her de facto soup laced with sleeping tablets.

Mr Peng then fell asleep on the couch where he was tied up before allegedly being stabbed a number of times and his penis severed
.

It is alleged Chen rang triple-0 and ambulance officers arrived at the Ruse St home and called police. Chen, 47, was taken to Ryde police station and charged with grievous bodily harm with intent to murder.

Chen, who owns a $1 million home without any mortgage, appeared before Ryde Local Court on Wednesday and was refused bail. Mr Peng died at 6pm that day.

Chen lived at the Ruse St property with her two sons.

The oldest, a teenager, was from her first marriage and the youngest was Mr Peng's son.

Friday, February 11, 2011 4:12:00 PM  
Anonymous Doug Setter said...

Well, I am from Vancouver, B.C. Canada and dated a Japanese girl for a year. I invited her to move in with me as she said that she would get a part-time job. Never happened. We got married and had a beautiful girl. Just before the birth of my daughter, she turned into a stone-cold robot. She refuses to work and screams at me if I work at a second job. After six years of supporting her, I am divorcing her. I blame my lack of foresight. But, I also would like to dispel this myth of Japanese women making such great wives. My soon-to-be-ex seems to have this sense of entitlement where she should control all of the money and not have to work. While I admire the Japanese for their work, martial arts and history, I cannot support this myth.

Monday, June 13, 2011 12:41:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All these stories about J women. Its the same story and the story of my life as well.

Its so sad.

Wednesday, July 06, 2011 8:30:00 AM  
Blogger abdoman said...

After supporting her for six years and having no intimacy for the last two and a half years, I am divorcing my Japanese wife. I got tired of her complaining, suicide threats and insults. She talks to the dog and baby about me in the third person and demands that I write her thank you notes if I visit friends with my daughter. Total control freak. One of the common attitudes with some Japanese women is that they are looking for Sugar Daddys. Once they are married, they expect to be looked after for life. (eg. "I worked for 20 years and shouldn't have to any more.") They also sleep with their children until age eight, so you might get a real clingy child and not see much husband-wife time together. While I admire the Japanese productivity, martial arts and spirit, I do not think that western and Japanese marriage really jive. My failure should not discourage others, just make them more wary.
P.S. Since moving out, I sleep better, reduce psoriasis and have more energy. What a concept.

Friday, July 08, 2011 9:58:00 AM  
Anonymous Ho Chi Wominh said...

Yep dem Oriental beetches izz crazzyyy!!! Look what happened to this dude after he filed for divorce!


A woman has been arrested after drugging her husband and tying him to his bed before cutting off his penis and throwing it into the garbage disposal, it has been reported.

Catherine (Kieu) Becker, 48, is said to have made her husband dinner at their California home on Monday night and put an unknown poison or drug in the food to make him pass out.

When he woke up, he was tied to a bed and could not move while his wife took a knife to his genitalia before throwing the organ into the garbage disposal and turning it on, police said.

Thursday, August 04, 2011 7:30:00 PM  
Anonymous wongfew said...

Yup, it's spreading..! :(

Saturday, September 10, 2011 8:50:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, it doesn't matter where's your (ex) wife came from. Isn't it just you are not very good judges of woman? ( especially if you had experienced divorce more than once ) Sounds like some people in here are just saying like "it was completely her fault! I am innocent foreign husband!" But I don't think so. You also mast had some causes other than your (ex) wife too. Stop acting like a drama hero...dude, people here who says "Jap wife is the worst blab blab blab..." are ugly. it is not only her fault. This is the result of both of you guys made decision LIGHTLY. "My innocent Japanese wife...NOT!!" ..huh? Give me a break! You're just grabbing bitches. I have been living with japanese wife for long time but things are going great. I will tell you, it's no matter the country. It's all depend on the woman's personality.

Tuesday, October 04, 2011 3:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well I have an informal survey to share. I know this is not scientific. The reason is that I have a Married Japanese GF who I am considering marrying. Yet I have noticed that i know about 15 Japanese Married woman and out of those 13 out of 15 cheat on their Husbands. Some are married to Americans some to Japanese but I think (I have heard from others) that this may be part of the reality of having a Japanese wife. Seems like some one says No means Yes and Yes means no--in other words what they say is bullshit. So even though I really like my GF I do not think I will risk that as it seems too common for me.

Saturday, November 12, 2011 5:05:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Married to a Japanese woman here in Hawaii. All I can say - WHAT A MISTAKE!!

Selfish parasite would be an accurate descripition of this woman!

Think twice before marrying a woman from Japan! Having over 7 friends experience the same dynamic I should have known, but was fooled by her initail caring attitude - which has grown to become very selfish and self serving.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011 12:16:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How can you divorce your japanese wife in the US if you got married in japan

Friday, August 24, 2012 7:44:00 PM  
Blogger craig said...

Funny, I have been married to a Japanese woman since 1996. We have 2 beautiful daughters. My wife is still a tigress in bed at 43. She takes awesome care of me as I do of her. She has worked on and off because she wants to. She doesn't need to at tis point, but she likes to feel like she is contributing. Her family loves me and mine loves her. I can say that her priority is keeping a happy husband. Many of you guys got caught in the trap of believing women are subservient. True power in a relationship, comes from making sure your partner is secure and has everything they want. Ask the questions, what will make you happy, what do you want

Monday, December 24, 2012 3:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm happily married to a Japanese woman, and have often read threads similar to this one. This is not my first marriage. In the past, I did not believe that I had enough experience to make an educated statement about a Japanese wife. After some years, I feel that I have enough insight to make educated observations.

So many posts reflect generalization errors that are very narrow minded. Some people seem to want us to believe that their experiences are the norm. That's similar to me saying that all women from Upstate New York are nasty sluts,based on how my Upstate New Yorker ex-wife turned out to be a nasty slut. I don't say that, because I know many honest, nice women come from New York. The same is true of Japan or any other country.

I was on an extended vacation in Taiwan, a few months after my divorce case started, when I met my current wonderful wife. She was working in Taiwan, and we happened to eat at the same restaurant, on a regular basis. I think we were at first drawn to each other, because we were both foreigners there. I started to study Chinese language, which allowed me to get a multiple entry visa for Taiwan.

She has one previous marriage. When her and I first started to get to know each other, I was told exactly what she expected from a husband. I was never really told much about her past. She only mentioned it when it was relevant to not repeating a past mistake. We were both in our 30s, when we first met, with each of us having firm goals for our future. About all I really know, about her ex, is that he used too much of her money.

Because of blogs like this one, I have been especially scrutinizing of my wife's actions. She's been exactly what she had promised, and that is a most wonderful housewife. I know she has been exceptionally faithful. I often wonder how much money her ex spent of hers. I have not made very much money, since the day she met me. I've spent a lot of her money. I've never asked her for any of her money, she often surprises me when she thinks I need something. Just a few weeks ago, she offered to replace our car. She knew exactly which car I wanted by observing what I looked at when we passed by.

You can find a woman like her from any culture, just like you can find bad women in any culture. It seems that most complainers use the term ex to describe their relationship(s) with Japanese. Not just on this blog, but everywhere there is Japanese wife topic being discussed.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013 3:17:00 AM  
Blogger Jay said...

Yep yep,was dating a Japanese girl for 16 months, we met in my home town Australia gatton, found out she was pregnant, that changes things considering her visa was up after 2 years..

Got to say, not only does my boy got my last name, she gave birth in Australia also, (even thou she didn't want to) and NEVER have I met someone as kind and caring as her, and the food omfg, married for 2 an a half years, and lets be truthful, in this day and age not sure if use get out much but there's no chance an Aussie chick comes close to my wife??

can't keep there legs shout ()0()

yeah I guess my point is that I bet from a different view we all have our faults, so this hole blog is pointless, eg: guys cheat on there girls all the time, Ill admit it, I've done in the past,

that is all

Thursday, December 12, 2013 2:55:00 AM  

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