Rape Me, Brutus?!
The primal idea of "rape" has continually polled as one of the top sexual fantasies of women.
Although a rape sex fantasy sounds somewhat unthinkable, that's exactly what most women call it. They want to play the innocent, naive, unknowing little girl who gets taken advantage of by the devious, predator-like man.
The combination of being overpowered by a lusty brute, while surrendering all control and relieving any burden of guilt upon him...is just irresistible to the female evo-psyche.
Nancy Friday wrote in her 1973 classic My Secret Garden, "Rape does for a woman's sexual fantasy what the first martini does for her in reality: Both relieve her of responsibility and guilt. . . . She gets him to do what she wants him to do, while seeming to be forced."Sooo, is "rape play" the next anal?
I find rape to be an incredibly hot topic!
36% of women have had a rape fantasy.
10% of women report that this is their favorite type of fantasy. - TatsumiEpisode 10: Rape Play w Tatsumi: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download
(Note: I am NOT encouraging any idiots out there to ACTUALLY RAPE anyone. I am merely pointing out that sex is a complex continuum, not simply a B&W reductionist equation...)
posted by byrdeye at 4:43 PM
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innocent? pffft.
(sorry, had to do it)
^ Yes, that's part of the fantasy too. Keyword: fantasy
Lolz
Actually, if you think about it - the more "monstrous" the "predator" is, the more "innocent" and "vulnerable" the woman feels. A lot of women do find power and eroticism in victimhood by feminine nature. So, yes, those induced feelings by contrast are absolutely part of her fantasy. Beauty & the beast, anyone?
eh, i like beast & beast better, but I'm weird like that.
^ So, I always wonder...
When the woman is Beastly:
Does she seek a man who is even more beastly to preserve the classic relative dynamic?
Does she seek the opposite in a man to role-reverse it?
Or does she just seek essentially the equivalent and settle for an even keel?
And similarly, when the man is more Beauty than Beast...what does he do?
Byrd- I guess it would depend on her mood? His too? I think a lot of people, men and women, even if in a more tradtional style relationship or involved with only a single partner like some variety in sex? I don't too many people always like having to be the initiator, or make all the moves, or be the more physical partner...I think a lot of people like mixing it up a bit...even if they generally go for more vanilla kind of sex?
Shrug. I like guys that sometimes are more aggressive than I am, are sometimes less aggressive than I am, and often, we're both aggressive at a similar level.
I mean I've said before I'm not generally into small, slight, frail looking/overly "emo" guys...I'm not interested (sexually) in guys who look like I might break them.
R.I.P. KC :(
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